| 10 TO 12 MONTHS PRIOR | |
| Discuss the style of the wedding and the budget with your fiancée and ALL parents. | |
| Participate with your fiancée in interviewing wedding consultants, advisors and coordinators. | |
| Speak with all your friends - pick their brains - learn who knows what and who knows who. | |
| Take your fiancée to every wedding show you can find - ask questions - learn from the professionals. | |
| With your fiancée speak to your clergy - speak with other family members' clergy - ask questions. | |
| 7 TO 9 MONTHS PRIOR | |
| Select all of your attendants together including your best man, groomsmen and ushers. | |
| Together, begin compiling your guest list. | |
| Go with fiancée to register with not less than three well known Bridal Registries for gifts (make sure you go along to avoid later surprises). | |
| Begin looking at honeymoon options with your fiancée - visit a travel agency or professional specializing in leisure travel - if you plan to leave the country check on your passports. | |
| By the end of Month 9 choose clergy (actually you may just want to accept your future bride's choice). | |
| By the end of Month 8 decide on a menu. | |
| By the end of Month 7 schedule engagement photo session (this is NOT just for your fiancée - you should be included in these photos) | |
| By the end of Month 7 select and order male attendants apparel. | |
| 4 TO 6 MONTHS PRIOR | |
| Start shopping for wedding rings. | |
| Finalize honeymoon plans with fiancée and book with travel agent. | |
| Make sure you get your family's guest list and go over it with your fiancée. | |
| Begin looking for a new place to live and start considering furnishings. | |
| By end of Month 5 shop and order the men's formal wear. | |
| Book wedding transportation - limousines, horse-drawn carriages, hot air balloons, boat, etc.... | |
| By the end of Month 4 have the rehearsal dinner plans in place (make sure you coordinate this with your fiancée). | |
| 2 TO 3 MONTHS PRIOR | |
| Order the wedding rings!! (If you are having these custom-made go back to 4 TO 6 MONTHS PRIOR and start again). | |
| Finish guest list with your fiancée. | |
| Shop for a wedding present for your bride. | |
| Shop for any additional clothes you will need for the wedding events and the honeymoon (how about luggage??). | |
| Shop for the groomsmen's keepsake. | |
| STOP by the end on Month 3 get some serious business out of the way (if you don't do it now you may end up procrastinating into eternity.) Consider your will, life insurance, physical checkup, etc. | |
| Reserve a block of rooms for your out-of-town guests (make sure you handle this for your fiancée). | |
| 4 TO 8 WEEKS PRIOR | |
| Check finances and make final arrangements for payment on the items you (and you family) are responsible for. | |
| Confirm that all fittings (clothes) are completed by groomsmen and father. | |
| By week 4 PICK UP WEDDING RINGS. | |
| 2 TO 3 WEEKS PRIOR | |
| Get marriage license with fiancée. | |
| Reconfirm honeymoon reservations and (if leaving the country go to the bank and exchange at least $100 into foreign currency). | |
| Confirm all transportation for all events (including reconfirming the honeymoon at the end of week 2). | |
| Arrange to move your belongings and your bride's belongings to your new residence. | |
| Make appointment to get hair cut (a manicure probably wouldn't hurt either). Try to set the appointment for about 5 days before the wedding. | |
| 1 WEEK PRIOR | |
| First of all - remember that gift to your bride that you went shopping for during Month 2 or 3?? - Now is the time - give your bride the gift (and make a big deal out of it - this is important). | |
| Second of all - remember those gifts to your groomsmen that you went shopping for during Month 2 or 3?? - Plans to give these out during the rehearsal dinner. | |
| Third of all - reconfirm the rehearsal dinner plans with everyone. | |
| Give the best man (at the rehearsal dinner) an envelope with the clergy's fee (he'll pass it on after the ceremony). | |
| Sit down and go over a wedding day schedule with your fiancée. | |
| At least 5 days prior get those little annoying chores out of the way: | |
| Make sure wedding clothes are ready and then remind wedding party men to pick up their tuxedos. Shine shoes. | |
| Arrange now for going away clothes to be taken to the reception location. | |
| Start packing early for your honeymoon (you will be surprised at how little time you have left as the week goes on). | |
| Put marriage license and rings where you can easily find them. | |
| THE WEDDING DAY | |
| REMEMBER THE RINGS AND THE LICENSE!!!!!!! | |
